Yes, I believe you can have it all.
But maybe just not all at the same time. Or maybe you focus on one aspect of your life (family) while chugging away SLOWLY at your writing career. Maybe you choose instead to flip that scenario, hire a full-time sitter and go full-force at your writing career.
Where are you at right now? Do you think you have it all? Do you get frustrated that there aren’t more hours in the day?